A New Outlook

As Sherree wrote in her first post, "Fashion should be fun." This is the most important thing to remember when choosing an outfit. Far too often, I see people stressed-out, upset, or even frantic when shopping. I, too, am guilty of this fashion no-no. I can't tell you how many times I've thought "I can't go out tonight. My outfit isn't trendy enough." Or, "This skirt that was so adorable in the store is too dressy for work and too casual for the party." Or even, "Nothing looks good on me. I give up!"

But, I sat down today to do some research into winter trends, and I realized that clothing should be the wrapper on your body. It doesn't make you who you are. It isn't life-changing (though a great pair of heels can improve your outlook on life). It doesn't define you; it just enhances who you are and shows off what you love about yourself.

I made a decision today to never let my clothing be a cause for concern. My new motto is: If it is made well, fits well, and flatters my figure, there is no reason not to wear it. Not everyone can wear every trend well, so I need to find the ones that I can wear, and work them! Or, even better, I can take a trend and make it my own. Cutesy actresses like to wear leggings with hip-grazing tops and flats. Well, I'm only 5'2", and that formula would make me look like I'm 12 years old, so I've revamped the trend to work for me: I'll wear dark (read:slimming) skinny jeans with 2" heels to lengthen my legs and a top that hits below the hips to lengthen my torso. Instantly, I look longer, leaner, and more grown-up.

So, here is your assignment: find one trend that you can adopt and make "yours." Menswear? 40's-inspired suits? Red as your signature color? There's no limit when fashion is the choice!